To live a life free from guilt, anger, and jealousy, you
must take 100% responsibility. Everything
you see, hear, taste, touch, or experience is yours alone and you have to own it. There
should be no blame toward yourself, or others, but a life of forgiveness. To change your life for the better, you must first change your perception of the problem. Anyone or anything you see as a problem must first be resolved inwardly, not outwardly. As the saying goes you can't change others. You can only change yourself. Total
responsibility, according to the Hawaiian "Ho’oponopono" belief, states that
everything that exists in your life is a projection from within. The Ho'oponopono mantra - "I'm sorrry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you," is a mental practice to make things right. I look forward to one day
discussing this philosophy with you.