Bullies

Bullies can make your life miserable by hitting, threatening, teasing, and calling you name.  Some bullies are looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want.  I think a lot of bullies pick on people because of their own insecurities.  By bringing attention to the faults of others they can hide their own insecurities in the hopes that no one will recognize theirs.  If you ever have to deal with a bully it’s very important that you tell your parents.  They can come up with the right solution to take care of the problem before it gets out of hand. 

How do you want to feel?

Instead of asking yourself where you would like to be or what you would like to accomplish in the next 1-5 years, ask yourself how you want to FEEL.  Do you want to be happy, peaceful, more confident, etc.?  Once you know what it is you want to feel, then look at what goals, etc., will get you there.  Sometimes we think only of the job that will bring us the most money, but not how it will impact my life.  Maybe you make lots of money, but you have to work all the time get it.  So you have the money, but not the time to enjoy it.  Ask yourself, how is this job, move, person, going to make me FEEL?

Stress and Fear

You need to handle your stresses, emotions and fears on your own accord, without the use of artificial aid, or you will never be as happy and confident as you should be.  Alcohol, drugs, etc., give you a false sense of security, and once the effect wears off your confidence is diminished, leaving you worse off than before.  Each time you face your stresses or fears head-on, without assistance, you gain confidence that will stick with you indefinitely.  You will become stronger and more confident knowing you can handle anything that comes your way.